Showing posts with label MilSpouse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label MilSpouse. Show all posts

Monday, January 13, 2014

Pro's & Con's of being a Military Spouse

Ok, so...... I was emailed a couple months back by one of my lovely subbies with a question about military life and what I feel are my pro's and con's of being a military spouse. At first I didn't know how to respond to this let alone blog about it but after thinking on it a while it finally came to me and was able to put it all together for you. Now, I'm not saying these will be your pro's and con's nor am I saying you will encounter any of the things I'll list. These are stipulations I've gone through and this is just my take on it. I'm not expert at the military lifestyle and I don't always agree with how things are or how the families can be. I'm just saying heheheeee!

PRO's:

  • Awesome insurance for both medical and dental
  • Choose between on base or off base housing
  • Explore new places around the world
  • Job stability
  • Lots of functions/classes to waste time on base
  • Make new friends who understand your lifestyle
  • Awesome discounts and specials
  • Shop tax free on base and off base @ certain locations
CON's
  • Spend lots of time apart from SO (training or Deployments) remember deployments can change them good or bad
  • Can be discharged for failed PT or conduct
  • Living away from family
  • PCS to base/location you do not like
  • Military is 24/7/365 mission is first before family
  • The wives are stereotyped as being lazy, gold diggers, and cheaters

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

All About OPSEC

What's OPSEC? It is keeping the our enemy countries from obtaining critical DoD information. It protects U.S. operations planned, in progress, or completed. Keep you and your SO information OFF any and all social medias such as Facebook, Twitter, etc. I know it's easy to just blurt out how many days or months until your SO returns home but you do not, by any means, want to do that. You don't want to risk the chance of orders being rewritten all because you opened your big mouth and said something you shouldn't have. I can't even count on my hands how many times I've seen milso's writting out their plans for when they come home as well as the exact time, date, and location of where they are or will be for the homecoming. That in itself is a BIG no no! I do not post anything about my husbands whereabouts while he's deployed. I just say the country tops. If it's getting closer to him coming home I don't say I have this many days, etc. I say something like "it's getting closer to hubby coming home and I have to start shopping." That does not disclose when he's coming home or anything like that. It's a very vague response that he's coming home. With that being said, I hope this blog helps you understand OPSEC just a little bit more because it's one of the failed things I see A LOT in the Military AND MilSO communities. It goes unnoticed and in reality the enemy is always watching!

So tell me....... Have you witnessed someone breaking the OPSEC rules? If so, what did you do to fix this situation?

See ya next time! -NaNa
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